Sex is good

Sex is good. Sex is from God. You are from sex.

I always knew that sex is good. I always was atrracted to this area of exploring myself. I remember myself as a little girl when with flashed face I was reading Danielle Steel books, hidden somwhere in the corner, so my mum wouldn’t see me. I also remember myself staring at the tv screen with fascination, watching romantic telenovels. Of course I get some idea how love should look like according to what I saw on the tv, but this article won’t be about it.

Romantic love can exist in a healthy way only when we woke up to the true love our heart first. Otherwise there is a risk that we will become dependent on the other person. This is big thing for me, I am working on ot right now.

So what about this sex?

In my opinion each form of sex is beautifull and amazing! But we as humans in general don’t really know how to control the urges and also how to recognize where is urge and where is true pleasure and love. For that reason we treat the other person, a lover as a subject to meet our needs. And from that place qestions and dilemmas arises. Everything would be fine, if after sex we wouln’t feel guilty and down. And we very often don’t even admit it to ourselves. That is just showing how much work needs to be done by us on this planet.

How can you grow as a spiritual being if you are not ready to look at the mirror and speak the truth to yourself, face your feelings and emotions and respect them? There is no need to judge yourself. Everything that happened is fine, if you’ve decided to have sex with the person you don’t know, respect that. That was your choice. And there is another side of it, we cannot always justify ourselves for things we do saying that: ”I cannot change it” . Yes, let’s experience, let’s do things! Finally we will find harmony.

Lovely, the is time for true revolution and time to change our ways of thinking and doing. Without our will to change nothing will happen.

Sex is beautifull and it is a gift from God, the sexual energy is divine and powerfull. But this energy will be there, when there is space for true love between lovers. If there is no love you won’t feel any deeper connection. More sensitive people feel it right after sex.

We debunk all taboos that sex is dirty and unclean. Your body was created from sex right? You are a sexual being and it is natural that you want to explore yourself this way. The thing is if you feel yourself deeper, you know how preciuos your body is. And if you treat your body like a sacred place probably you will not invite stranger to that place. This all is your choice, go and try how you feel with this knowledge.

People are often blinded thinking about sex, bacause that experience is giving them the moment of relief, oblivion and taking the stress out.

So the knowledge is the key to act the way which is true to you.

Lately there was one question coming to me from the universe:

Which is more of challenge for you: having sex with a hundreds of partners of having sex with one partner in hundreds of ways?

In my opinion the second option is more atrractive, bacause for me without building a spiritual and emotional bond, sex will not happen. I have some values that are so deep in my core and I follow that. I know as well that it is hard to be free from old patterns, bacause my path wasn’t easy either.

But I feel and know so deeply that NOW is the best time to free ourselves from things we don’t want to have in our lives.

Respect your energy. Don’t give it away. Make love with love, so you will feel what true pleasure and delight is. If during the sex and after you can look deep into the other person eyes and say I LOVE YOU AND I SEE YOU, that’s where the magic of love arises. So let’s make love! Do love!

With love,

Joanna